Independent Southern sweetheart seeking a real connection

Mama of 4 kids, hard working, open minded seeking a strong independent go getting man. I dont want anymore kids. Period. I dont need a man who comes with no goals, ambitions or plans. I need a partner and team mate. I prefer non Muslim as I will not conform or change how I live my life. Dont come with drama or debt and no your family cant move in with us. I am a lover of music, antiques, driving, old world history and diversity. I cook Mexican food, some Nigerian food, German and American. German born but I have dual citizenship.