Sensual and Sapiosexual. I do not engage in mediocre. I am looking for a man with the natural ability to lead and take charge, while we both work together to be better people. Someone who is mentally, emotionally, spiritually, morally and financially stable in his own right. A man with a good sense of humour. If you are narcissistic, controlling and manipulative with an unforgiving spirit, please stay away. I am big on communication. I also don't do well with baby mama/ ex-lover/ ex-wife drama. My peace of mind is very paramount.